YOUR BEST STRATEGY
People do not plan to fail, they fail to plan.
It's amazing how you can make something work when you have the definite goal and plan. So let's begin.
Step 1.
Try to understand what kind of person you are. I know men that are ready to marry almost any beautiful woman if she'd agree. If it's you, don't waste much time on correspondence, but take a personal tour to that city where you can select online (before your trip) 10-30 suitable women to meet each of them personally, face to face. If you have chemistry, you will know right away. Don't go on your own, an agency with 500+ available women will be indispensable help. You will not be alone after such trip, if you are a susceptible person. Just get agreements from selected ladies to meet you before you go and ask questions that are critical for you. You can meet even more women while in the city.The other case is with very selective people who are ready to seek many years and there is not so many chances for them to find somebody in a city with 500000 people. If it's you there's no need to jump on a plane at once. Spend more time on correspondence, trying to tell real diamonds from bogus ones. But don't make mistakes. "Too good to be true" things (what you are probably seeking) are dangerous. And remember, even 1000 letters and 100 photos can't give any guarantee that your relationship won't fail as soon as you meet.
If you have some disability or some special demands, or if you are not of Caucasian race, or if you live in a country that is not wellknown in Russia, or if you seek a partner much younger than yourself, I highly recommend you using our Personal Search services, because the agency can help in the clearing of all possible delicate issues and you won't waste your time and money on fruitless correspondence.
Step 2.
Try to understand what kind of person you are seeking. Do not think that all russian women are traditional, educated, cultured, honest, kind etc. They are not desperate. They don't dream to marry much older men as many agencies are trying to convince you. The more demands you have - the longer you seek, the more you spend. But there is someone here for everyone. You just have to look. If you are seeking somebody much younger than yourself, I would advise you to stay within any mentioned age ranges in the ladies profiles, or expect that some of them may not answer. I would advise also to stay within the framework of common sense regarding the age, or expect that some of the ladies will not be honest with you. You need to be clever and steady to detect their real intentions and to move on if your intuition tells that there is something wrong. Also I highly recommend you to read Doc Love's arcticles just to understand how important Women's Interest Level is for your future relationships. You must be able to trust your partner. Probably this High Interest Level in YOU (not beauty or traditional values) is the thing that really worth to seek in Russia.Step 3.
Count your resources. Yes, all good things cost us money or time. Is $$ the problem for you? Or is it time? If you have to save on lunchs to afford a trip to Russia, you should think if the idea to find a russian wife is for you at all. It is not an inexpensive process to seek, visit, marry and support a russian lady (and her child). Probably all this process will cost you not less than $ 10000 -20000 (correspondence, translations, tickets, visits, english lessons, driving lessons, visa documents, health care). Think carefully about the long term costs and impacts of your actions. You can save money if you select women having private email, with good English abilities. Check russian women photo album with free addresses, probably there is someone for you. In addition you can use free services or do all what you can by yourself, but be careful and very selective. While it is normal to seek good value in the services you'll need, trying to do everything on the cheap will often get you poor results and will possibly leave you scammed and heartbroken . I highly recommend you to subscribe to several mailing lists and discussion groups to be able to ask for help and to get information from experienced people. Of course, not all can afford to read 10-20 messages daily, not all of you even have time to look at photo catalogues. But then they surely have enough money to pay for assistance. Personal Search service is probably a good idea in such case. You will have several very good candidates as a result. This is something pretty good to begin with.Step 4.
Select women, get their addresses and all available contact information. The more information (address, phone, email) the better. Sometimes women don't give their phone numbers for publications, but you can ask them about the phone number personally. Buy the addresses in bulk, it will cost less. Never begin correspondence (even free of charge) if you don't have real women addresses. An address from such agencies may cost you $1000's when you have invested your time and emotions already. Keep in mind women location while selecting. You will not be able to visit many countries and cities, but photos and correspondence should help you to select a perfect destination. Use our Personal Search services if such searches are difficult for you and you can trust me and/or us on that.Step 5.
Start corresponding with the women who interest you. Make sure your introduction letter is one of the best they might see. Take some time to develop relationships through writing and phone calls. You may correspond with many before you settle on several. And only your trip will finally clear the situation. Making a trip over there is a big investment, you want to be sure it will be worth it. But don't wait too long. 3-5 months are enough for correspondence. Try to use each letter to get to know the ladies, ask questions, even use psychology tests if you wish. Ask for more photos if she don't have much online, probably order a photoshooting (it's highly recommended if she is one and only good candidate). Never lie them. It's probably better don't make promises and don't speak about love too soon. INFORM YOUR AGENCY ABOUT EACH MONEY REQUEST AND MONEY TRANSFER. It's fine if you trust her, but the agency should be able to separate honest behaviour from dishonest and such information is invaluable for them and for you (if it was not the first occasion). Be warned that it is impossible for a single russian woman to get a visa to travel to USA under any circumstances even with help from high power relatives or university associates. If you got such offer from your lady, please inform the agency. To bring your lady to USA, you will need to meet her first and to get a fiancee visa (K1 - visa).Step 6.
Take a tour. I hope it will be the HAPPY END of your search :). Of course, you can go to Russia to meet one and only lady, but then you better think that you are going over not only with intention of finding a wife, but of meeting new friends, seeing new places, visiting Hermitage etc. And even if so, make contact with the agency before you go... just in case.Good Luck
Irina aka Ircha :))
